Judith Martin, the doyenne of American etiquette experts, the woman who Cosmopolitan describes as "opinionated, astringent, and hilarious", and who People magazine says writes "as if she has access to the stone tablets that Moses mislaid", now turns her undivided attention to weddings. Subjects range from the engagement, the shower, and the invitations to the wedding party, the gifts, the reception, and the aftermath - advice that will make the run-up to the big day more pleasant for one and all, including the bride herself.